You want to find out a mode of renunciation that will be an escape from pain. I tell you again, there is no such escape possible except by perverting or mutilating one's nature. What would become of me, if I tried to escape pain? Scorn and cynicism would be my only opium; unless I could fall into some kind of conceited madness, and fancy myself a favourite of Heaven because I am not a favourite with men. George Eliot
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When one is in pain, they try to escape it. This is not only normal but it is something that everyone does. However, this escape makes you feel bad about yourself. Pain is not something to be taken lightly.

It will eventually get better but it will come with its own set of problems. The idea of trying to escape pain by mutilating your nature is absurd and unwise. If you start doing things that are not natural to your personality, you will find out that you are not happy with yourself anymore.

How can you be happy with yourself if you are not happy with everything that you do? You will just be a shell of your former self. Only by staying true to who you are can you escape the pain of life.

Source: The Mill On The Floss

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